Do you often find yourself wondering whether or not your boyfriend is cheating? Are these overwhelming suspicious thought driving you crazy? At this point you have to find out, for your own sanity and the sanity of others around you, whether or not he is focusing on a relationship other than yours. If you are in this situation the best thing to do is, first, collect yourself, your thought, and your pride, and then second, do whatever it takes to find out the truth and resolve the situation so you can move on with your life.
The most important thing to remember when trying to find out if your boyfriend is cheating is to make sure you pay close attention to small details. There are many key indicators that point to an unfaithful partner. Take notice of how patterns of his behavior have changed or have begun to change recently. Is he suddenly changing passwords to things like his voice-mail, computer, or Facebook? If it has never bothered him before for you to have this information and now it does, this is a definite red flag. Also, pay attention to the amount of time it takes him to respond to you when you call or text him. If he has always responded to you promptly but is now beginning to make up excuses as to why he could not call you or text you back right away, take notice. In addition, if he begins to plan evenings, weekend, or trips without you saying it's an event for just the guys, then try to confirm where he is going and who he is going with. If he has always wanted you to be by his side no matter what "the guys" wanted, then he may be spending his time igniting a fire other than yours.
Do not ignore unusual or suspicious behavior because you don't want to believe, or accept, that he is cheating. It is crucial to know the character of your man, with certainty, before you begin planning your future with someone who cannot be trusted to maintain faithfulness.