?So you've been dating this really terrific guy for awhile now and you're starting to think this could be the one. But before you mutter the big "L" word first, you want to be sure that is what you're feeling and that it's going to last. Sound familiar? Here are a few easy signs to look for when deciding if what you feel is love, or just indigestion.
Butterflies In Your Stomach
If you've still got them it is probably a good sign, but sorry, it doesn't mean it's most definitively love. Those butterflies are a good sign, they mean you're still interested and excited over your guy. It means you're not bored and there is a strong spark between you and your man. Unfortunately, you can feel butterflies without feeling love. If those flutters, sweaty palms and racing heartbeat are all you've got going on, then you're probably still just in like.
You're Comfortable All The Time
Get serious with yourself for a moment. Let's say you have the flu and you know you look like a hot mess. Do you still want him over? And if you said yes, do you feel like you have to put on makeup before he arrives? If you said you'd still want him, and there is no way your sick butt is putting on makeup to see him then congratulations, it might be love. Feeling comfortable in your own skin at all times, even when it's not pretty, is a tell tale sign that you're in deeper than like. It means you're not trying to win his affections anymore by impressing him and pretending to be someone you think he'd like. It means you know he accepts you for who you are, and you've let your guard down. If you're comfortable with morning breath and bed head then you might just be ready to drop the "L-Bomb" on him.
More things to look for? You trust him to run errands for you or relay messages to your friends and family. Trust is huge, and if he's earned yours then you probably have a good thing going.